You've got to understand companies are not people, "greedy bastards". Opening a venture in which you have employees and declare taxes means you're doing it for profit, plain and simple.
Making informed decisions are the pillars to economics, may it be trends, statistics, cold numbers ... it's not mandatory that they know your info, you have to willingly provide it to them so they can assess the service level and cost they will give you, and even then, after a quote is issued, you're not forced to use their product.
If that niche specific product isn't agreeable for you, maybe you should just use another one
"We live in a world of perpetual outrage"