Winane's a guy AFAIK.
Also that KFM is just the normal one plus bits of advanced coding that'd only get in the way if you're trying to get started. So I say normal KFM is the best char to start from (changing him to 6 buttons is easy), unless there's some other solid char template out there that has the same tutorial side to it as KFM.
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