Giving birth and nourishing,
having without possessing,
acting with no expectations,
leading and not trying to control:
this is the supreme virtue.
-- Lao Tzu, The Book of the Way
Possessing, acting with expectations, trying to control: the path to the dark side---y'know, the crux of Anakin Skywalker . . .
Spoiler: having without possessing (click to see content)
Spoiler: acting with no expectations (click to see content)
Spoiler: leading and not trying to control (click to see content)