The Mugen Fighters Guild - I'll just put this here if anyone cares. (Sorta long read)

-SyN-

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#41 October 23, 2014, 03:29:37 am

Accomplished many things you can't comprehend.

Everyone has their own way of handling things but it's also easy to say how one would handle something by just observation. Not putting anyone down with that last line but believe me, it's hard being the better person in a situation where the female is dead wrong and knows it but never takes responsibility for her actions but blames you for her actions.

That's a good example of today's female logic.

Btw I agree with what Rajaa said in his first post. Today's women are fascinated by what they see on these stupid reality shows and wants to base their relationship from that. Today's women want to be the center of attention and stand out from everyone else like they got it going on or she doing better than the next person.

Hell, they fight and get mad when showing up at an event with the same hairstyle and outfit so what you expect.

To those saying I should of did something to the guy, it wasn't worth it and she was to dumb to fall for the trap because whenever a women is feeling weak or vulnerable due to lack of attention, anyone can push up, on, her and take advantage and hit it. It's just like Walt said, the guy is like, I got some, the female is like, I didn't get caught. ..

anyway I suspected it for a while because the conversations would quickly turn into arguments, mainly her doing, her calling me when im, on, the road asking when I'll be back home so she can start dinner, etc.

I honestly didn't care and I knew sooner or later I was going to leave. She just made it alot easier on me.
I'm sure she did not expect me to behave the way I did so that messed her up, like I said, it was not worth it which led to my arrest because I was coming back for the last of my belongings only to find out she smashed it and told the cops I was 5 rest passing on her property.

I prayed to help keep calm because there is an, old saying, what comes around, goes around and the lady judge was in, favor of me because she hates when women make her look, bad and trying to take advantage of the system and being spiteful because they can't have it their way.

another guy in this thread asked is it that easy to get arrested?
Here in the US it is, women got it easy here so they abuse it.

Demitri

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#42 October 23, 2014, 03:51:39 am

A Crossbreed

I knew you were in a rough patch based off the little bit you mentioned but damn bro.

I'm glad you at least got the proof you needed for the damages and such. Old me would've told you not to give up on marriage but.......well we'll catch up soon.

Kudos to the judge too.

-SyN- said, October 23, 2014, 03:29:37 am

another guy in this thread asked is it that easy to get arrested?
Here in the US it is, women got it easy here so they abuse it.

Wanted to give an example of this;
I have a female cousin who dated a friend's friend. Eventually a kid happened. My cousin doesn't like his family. The friend was working on becoming a cop. Long story short, she lied about abuse and pretty much screwed that up for him and got him arrested. Now he works at an airport. Good money but the guy is beyond miserable.

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#43 October 23, 2014, 04:11:05 am

Still around, guys, more awesomer.

Hello, -SyN-, nice to see you again.

I'm for one glad that you've kept your cool through the ordeal, and that you are going to get the retribution that you deserved, despite all the hurdles that you have to go through. You did good, chief.

Most people will not understand why you did what you did, it's apparent in this thread, but they mean well, and are going by what they know, for those people, be mindful for what others say might be stupid to them, what you say might hold true to them. take it as water off a ducks back, or at the very most a learning moment.

As for you, I hate to say it but your experiences and actions never leave you. I learned that from this forum alone, let alone the real life playing field. Those experiences are what made you you. Since many of us respect you like we would our family, it's safe to say that your experiences shaped you very well. I beg you to not, by lack of better words in my head, get salty over women and relationships. This is one of a many different varieties of women, and friendships are great regardless of gender, race, creed, or other walk of life.

Personally, I want to say, you are awesome. Stay that way.

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-SyN-

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#44 October 23, 2014, 04:17:15 am

Accomplished many things you can't comprehend.

I will, and thanks.

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#45 October 23, 2014, 05:04:59 am

Plain as white bread.

Shit, what a fucked up situation. Honestly, you must some sort of monk to have handled it as well as you did. Well, that woman is clearly out of her damned mind, so be glad you're out of there!

Legendary DeMoNk@I

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#46 October 23, 2014, 06:02:42 am

The Visionary

Damn....That was heavy. I remember a long time ago you were posting pics n stuff of your EX too and happy smh. funny how shit changes over time bro. Its a damn shame she put you through that. Im glad the judge was in your favor. Thats why i dont take that marriage shit seriously as much as i would like to.

Respect to you for keeping your cool when you saw the other dude. It wouldnt have been worth it anyway. You didnt know him and he was just another squirrel getting a nut. Shes his headache now lol Its just good he didnt get out of pocket towards you on some asshole shit. So i tip my hat to you that you kept it G'd up and stayed cool with that. Besides your EX would have used that shit against you too smh....

But anyway good youre coming back around. focus on yourself and your kid (when you get time to see her) and thats it. Most of these women here in the US be having shit fucked up when it comes to money and marriage. The law be on their side way too easy on top of that. So as men we gotta be VERY careful who the hell we marry and have kids with ESPECIALLY when we are the good guys.

The game is sour bruh. I bet If you were a dog and treating her like shit things would be much different and less headache heh. Funny but a FACT^^

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#47 October 23, 2014, 07:24:53 am

YouTube has ruined me.

Legendary DeMoNk@I said, October 23, 2014, 06:02:42 am

The game is sour bruh. I bet If you were a dog and treating her like shit things would be much different and less headache heh. Funny but a FACT^^

Indeed; that's the ongoing trend now with U.S. women. They're too "material" with ass-backwards morals and values. Some are lessons while others are looking at you like you're an ATM receipt. "Being good" isn't easy...and it's only harder when we don't assess every situation properly. She really wanted Syn to "act out of character", but it backfired. Even the "guilt trip" had no effect, and I'm pretty sure that shocked her too. She was angry and insecure because she "knew" what she was doing to you. When you know your self-worth, people are only capable of surprising you...eventually they'll understand what they've missed out on.

I can feel ALL of the emotion in this thread....just know we're all happy for you SyN.

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#48 October 23, 2014, 07:35:14 am

The Mad Paletter

Couldn't have said it better myself. Stuff like what's stated above is why I still remain single. I'd rather find love in a different country than this (Better be careful considering this might be bold).
In any case, I'm happy you are still going strong and still with us Syn. Welcome back

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#49 October 23, 2014, 08:40:44 am

I wrote a song about it.

Congrats to you. Wish you the best of luck in the future. I hope this doesn't permanently derail you from the idea of marriage because it can be beautiful when done right. My parents will be celebrating 30 years in November and that gives me hope for my situation. I'm not married but I have a woman who loves me unconditionally. With that being typed again I wish you the best of luck and hope that in your future you find "The One" instead of finding "Someone".

Hoshi

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#50 October 23, 2014, 09:02:04 am

Sprite Whore

Sorry to hear about your shitty luck, bro. Good to see that you're coming out of it well and being a lot more positive than most would be. As far as marriage goes, it's a mixed bag. Obviously, you're not gonna jump back into getting married, but take a break from the dating scene and don't look for anyone. Get back into the swing of things. You got this shit, man.

-SyN-

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#51 October 23, 2014, 10:39:59 am

Accomplished many things you can't comprehend.

I appreciate your words everyone. Just made it home from work and going to call it a night.

MissB

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#52 October 23, 2014, 01:02:20 pm

Are you pondering what I'm pondering?

It's pretty painful when someone violates your trust like that. I'm sorry you had to deal it.

I think so, but isn't Regis Philbin already married?

-SyN-

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#53 October 23, 2014, 07:20:18 pm

Accomplished many things you can't comprehend.

Mog, its ok. It's one of life's experiences and please don't be offended about me labeling women, im only speaking from experience and I know there are a few that are nothing like the majority that fits the earlier descriptions.

And again everyone, Thanks for your words and support. It really helps and means alot.

Just finished signing the papers for my new home, I move in next Friday. Single life and Freedom, how I miss you so!!!

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#54 October 23, 2014, 07:42:24 pm

Do do do do do do do dodo dododo dodo

Damn! Sorry to hear about all drama you had to go through and glad it all turned out in your favor.

I actually had my girlfriend read what you wrote in the first page, as she read it quietly all she said was "That ungrateful Bitch! and she didn't even apologies, these type of basic bitches is whats makes us look bad" she was pretty mad.

Good luck with your new home & enjoy the single life man.

Jarek Bachanek

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#55 October 26, 2014, 08:22:05 pm

wow you got tough time but I see you get stronger from this experience. You also mentioned she had a daughter. You keepin touch woth her and you are close to her ? How she handled the divorce ? I'm only asking because I felt it was missing part of your story.

"If our lives are indeed the sum total of the choices we've made, then we cannot change who we are. But with every new choice we're given, we can change who we're going to be." The Outer Limits S04E04

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-SyN-

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#56 October 29, 2014, 10:45:54 pm

Accomplished many things you can't comprehend.

Me and my stepdaughter, I still see her as my little girl no matter what, are still in contact.

As far as her with the divorce situation, I'm good, she has to deal with it.

Watta

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#57 October 30, 2014, 08:06:11 pm

School.

I just had a read of this. I'm glad to see you well and back bro.
Man, that must have been shit, seeing that you didn't do anything wrong from your part. I'm very surprised at her behavior when you saw her "lover" or w/e.

Hope life gets better for you bro, you've been through a lot

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#58 October 30, 2014, 10:44:42 pm

Screenpack Maker EX

Since so much has already been said. I will say this, continue to keep your head up and enjoy life. We only have one life to live, so enjoy it much as possible.

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#59 October 30, 2014, 10:45:41 pm

inktrebuchet

Damn dude! I just read through this...

Sorry to hear about all that crazy drama. On the plus side your life will probably get super cool with all the new found freedoms.

-SyN-

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#60 November 05, 2014, 01:38:08 pm

Accomplished many things you can't comprehend.

It's all good ink, btw I am currently enjoying that freedom now and actually about to do some mugen work!

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