And oh yeah I remember that story about your date with that poor innocent young lady. 

If a girl thinks splitting a bill "looks cheap" she wasn't worth taking out in the first place.

MissBHaven said, December 17, 2012, 02:06:23 am

And oh yeah I remember that story about your date with that poor innocent young lady. 

Must resist urge to ask about it-gah, crap. Please tell me.

He asked a girl out to an expensive place, then insisted she pay half the bill.  She wrestled him to the ground , stole his wallet and paid with his money.

poor, innocent young lady. 

You are not having dates, ever?

You poor guy, a life of no sex. D:

Admit it you're a cheapskate!  I keep offering to buy your dinner, you see no problem with that, but you wouldnt pay for mine IF you asked me out?   How do I know you arent after MY money?  Date women who work and dont need your money.....  pffffft.  And oh yeah I remember that story about your date with that poor innocent young lady. 

Even I know that you dont need dates for sex.

 

Nigga I give bomb ass sex you better pay for my meal.

Nigga I give bomb ass sex you better pay for my meal.

you should feel like paying a whole meal on the second date, the first one should be a casual thing where you don't have to feel obliged to be economically charming. And this girl was obviously testing you: she's not worth your time!
you did nothing wrong: her past bad experiences are hers, not your problem.

plus, i hate the whole "you should be a gentleman and pay for my company": it sounds like an escort thing and anyway if she/he accepted the invitation, she/he equally profits from your presence as much as you do from her/his

TempesT said, December 17, 2012, 03:20:07 am

Real talk, it's definitely a chivalry thing, if she offers to pay but then gets uppity about it, she was testing you which means she likes to play stupid games and is probably immature as fuck and not worth your time unless you want some quick ass. Fucking skeezy bitches.

Damn. Are you okay? Lol.

Lumpy Space Jmorphman said, December 17, 2012, 02:11:06 am

oh well I don't have to deal with this ever

You are not having dates, ever?

You poor guy, a life of no sex. D:

If I invite someone to my house for dinner, I can spend several hours preparing and cleaning up after, I'd guess average $60 for ingredients and probably $20-30 for wine, I do not present them with a bill for half, so if someone invites ME to dinner, I don't expect to pay half either.  Yeah yeah, I havent had a date since woolly mammoth was roadkill, but whatever happened to proper etiquette?  Do I need to change my name to Miss Manners?

MissBHaven said, December 17, 2012, 10:51:31 pm

If I invite someone to my house for dinner, I can spend several hours preparing and cleaning up after, I'd guess average $60 for ingredients and probably $20-30 for wine, I do not present them with a bill for half, so if someone invites ME to dinner, I don't expect to pay half either.

Are you saying this because people who invite you at their place present you with a bill ? Has anyone here said anything about inviting someone at their place and presenting a bill ?

How is inviting a date to dinner at my house where I've spend hours cooking and about $80 on food and wine different from a date inviting me to a restaurant for dinner?  Money was spent both times, why should I (the woman) be expected to cook and clean and ....

Going to a place neither of you own is not taking anybody as your guest.

Its context.
You never invite people to your home to present them with bills.
And you never have dates at home, normally people dont do that.
Whereas going out on a date implies you are knowing the other person better, but not enough that you are inviting them home, where you are HOSTING a meeting.

Theres a huge difference between being a host and going on a date.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6x-JVXkd8SQ

Next time i go on a date im gonna **puts on sunglasses**

SPLIT THE BILL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QoPWALM2riQ

You already told me you stopped me from seeing some of your statuses, I don't know why you did that and I don't care, so why do you feel need to post a picture? I have no reason not to believe you; you date a different girl every week so it's not unbelievable. Lol.

Smokahontas said, December 18, 2012, 11:04:47 am

at that point i didn't care shes not worth my time or money. **shrugs**
it's 2012 the economy sucks. If it's a first date then split the fucking bill. If women wanna strive so hard for gender equality
equal wages for equal work etc. then you can't expect men treat you like it's 1950.

I have absolutely no interest in "gender equality" as you call it.  I just have the feeling my interpretation of a "date"  is totally different from everyone else's.

  Now I see you explained SHE chose the place.   That does make a difference.  If I wanted to chose the place, then I would expect it to be my treat and I would say so.

Rajaa said, December 18, 2012, 11:46:35 am

You already told me you stopped me from seeing some of your statuses, I don't know why you did that and I don't care, so why do you feel need to post a picture? I have no reason not to believe you; you date a different girl every week so it's not unbelievable. Lol.

i did it because i steal alot of the stuff you post and make it as my own

What is this domestic dispute?

I personally think men should always be a gentlemen towards women even when they are in the wrong. It's just the gentlemen thing to do.

Nobody hurt me, I'm just fucking ridiculous.

Noctis said, December 18, 2012, 01:14:44 pm

I personally think men should always be a gentlemen towards women even when they are in the wrong. It's just the gentlemen thing to do.

Be nice when I'm not the one who's wrong? My ass. Either I get an apology that I like or get the fuck out.

"[Baby, I know you just cut off my penis, but I respect women because I'm a gentleman, so I'll have to ask you to kindly pack your stuff and leave. Wait, though, let me give you a foot massage and make you some breakfast first.]" - Ridiculous example.

Fuck being a gentleman who let's wrongness slide because of gender and/or sex, earn my respect and I will be nice to you, otherwise, you only get normal human courtesy.

Edit:
This is not an attack on you. O_O

is that a dog?

I always tried to get progressive independent women to date with me, and have them pay their share. Then I met my current wife, and she was like "you gon take that, right?" and I was hooked.

The gift of giving - Psychologists say it is often the giver, rather than the recipient, who reaps the biggest psychological gains from a gift. Being allowed to be chivalrous is a great thing, as it's clear where things are going, and the courting process is a bit romantic.

BUT IN THE CASE AT HAND. When people are getting to know each other, without being clear on the terms they're in, it's ok to invoke for the splitting of the bill, at least until they know they're going somewhere, then chivalry could kick in IMO.

I was replying to MBH, I figured she'd know that because I said the same thing to her on the first page. I wasn't replying to you. Sorry.

keep it to yourself.

I take people out to dinner all the time, usually several times a week, that doesnt mean it's a "date".  Besides if I recall it was YOU who first brought up me taking you out for dinner.    I asked if you were single and you said no but I could still buy you dinner.

That very beautiful young lady has nothing to feel insecure about, any instigating was done by you when you posted that photo of the other very nice young lady.  It's YOU who are the troublemaker, not me.