I would talk to some of them and they always say things like they want a nice guy, sensitive, caring and smart. However, I always see this girl going on with those douchebags who are straight up mean and fucked up. Then I ask these girls, "Why do you allow this to happen to you, when you said you wanted nice guys?" You know their answer? "I don't know... I don't even know what I want anymore..."

I am surrounded by females who claim to know what they want, such as, they have an "idea" in their head of which type of person they want, but it is not actually what they really want. I've observed that a woman's goals, dreams, or feelings about anything could change just by anything. One of the strongest and effective way of changing what a woman wants, is to trigger her emotions. A woman could say she likes these sensitive nice guys but if Mr Macho is triggering her heart, then she's swept off the ground for him. These females I know are very beautiful looking women. However most of them are party type girls, dunno if that counts or not.

Also, sometimes I could read a woman's emotions and she wouldn't show it. For example, I would notice that she wants something at the mall, and she would say oh that's a cute dress. I would ask her, would you like me to buy that for you? And she would straight up deny that she didn't want it, but really deep down, she did. There's this whole other backstory about females, that sometimes when they tell you "no," it actually means "yes." For some Japanese girls, they will pretend that they don't want the sex but deep down they do, and denying it for them just turns them on even more. Really, the female mind is really complicated.

That brings us back to females not knowing exactly what they want (yet). Girls around the age 18-22 have young "ideas" in their mind that is inexperienced of what they actually want. Of course, they can tell you what exactly they want and you will believe it, but ask her about the same preference a year later and see if it is still the same. It could be different.

Hell, we all dont know what exactly we want around age 18-22. We're all still under development from teen to full adults. The front part of our brain just started development!

But specifically women will change their mind a lot around the ages 18-22. If you're dating a woman older or the same age, she will ask herself if she wants to be with you for the rest of her 30-40 years of life. Most likely, she would have seconds thoughts. Same with guys, I didn't wanna imagine being with my ex for the next 50-60 years of my life.

I think one of the most important key factors to understanding women, is to really understand them. If a man can understand a women more than she understands herself, she will feel very special and cared for. Don't fully listen to what comes out of a woman's mouth, instead, read her body language and her actions. It speaks louder. Also, most women never say "no" when they reject you. Instead, they have a million other reasons that they pick to say, so you can "get the idea." Haha, no really, females want you to be able to pursue them and read their subtle hints. It actually makes them feel special.

Anyways, I love these debates, they rather intrigue me. So if you guys think I'm trying to act like some kind of sage of wisdom, I'm not, I just like to discuss this stuff. And feel free to share your opinion.