Heterosexual, heteroromantic, and cisgender is not queer. Hetero ace counts as queer.
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You're welcome. As an ace lesbian transfem I sit right at that intersection so this is an issue very close to me.
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Aces can reclaim queer if they want to, queer is not something only non-heterosexual people can use, sometimes identity can be so complex that queer is the only word that fits for some people
Also I would like to highlight that asexual is a NON-heterosexual identity;)
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I specified non-heterosexual /attractions/. No attractions also means none of those. And please, give me one historic example of queer being used against heteroromantic aces / heterosexual aros.
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A cis woman can be in a significant non-romantic, non-sexual partnership with another aro-ace cis woman; likewise for cis men. Their relationship appears lesbian/gay (whether romantic, sexual, or both) to people who assume that romantic and sexual relationships are the only ones that matter enough to "count," or because of amatonormative assumptions they make about the activities that the partners share (holding hands, living together, co-parenting).

These kinds of partnerships are probably more common for aromantic people, but could occur for someone of any romantic/sexual orientation. It's a different kind of attraction/relationship.

Platonic love, or queerplatonic/quasiplatonic love, is subjugated even in alloromantic and allosexual circles which accept queer attractions and gender expressions. Committed friendship and companionate care may be considered queer attractions which don't necessarily have anything to do with sex or romance. Not everyone in those situations will re-/claim "queer," for all the complex reasons people have mentioned here, but it may certainly be used as a slur against them, and it may well fit the context of their partnership as they see it.
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Actually aro/ace people have been called queer since at least Victorian times. They might even have been one of the first groups of people to be called such.
A quick history lesson;
http://autismserenity.tumblr.com/post/122355007066/oodlenoodleroodle-autismserenity-fornaxed
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That post is all over. Unless I'm missing something, the ignorance of people not know asexuality back then was misdirected homophobia. “You could say that the spinsters became queer because they didn’t have sex or didn’t take part in sexual activities, and also because they started to be perceived as potentially homosexual." "the group was considered queer because they were breaking gender norms." Sorry, but that's not what queer means. You are not queer because you break gender norms.
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Okay so, cis het aces are queer, they just are not anywhere near oppressed as others on the MOGAI scale (they still could be heavily oppressed on the Race scale). They have Asexual oppression, but Cis het privilege and they NEED to be aware of that at all times.

Those privileges mean they do not get to talk over those who are not cis or not het.

Aces have a rich history too, it's not as well known in the mainstream but it is by no means doesn't belong in the acronym. The A is for Asexual/Agender so it's very important to make them feel welcome. Just make sure they are also aware of their privilege.

Kinda like cis white gays, they are oppressed for being gay but are oppressors for being white and cis.
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Willow Autumn Scharge because historically Aces ARE oppressed. I get you are upset, but just because someone is cis and het doesn't mean they aren't oppressed.

They could be Black, they could be disabled, they could be autistic, they could be any number of things.

I am not saying they are in the "same boat" as say a Latina Trans Pan Ace. But they still are allowed in our community.

You cant just shut people out because you don't like them when they are part of the community.

I'm a disabled TWOC, and I support Cishet aces, I just tell them to be aware of their privilege they have over other Aces.

To get an idea of my fetish, picture these women like Britney Spears, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Faith Hill, or Brooke Burke getting breast cancer.