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Title: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: kakkoii superhero on December 17, 2009, 02:01:17 PM
since my step brother which was just turned 20 few months ago and 11years younger than me decided into this commited relationship  :P
I kinda worried about it, but I don't say anything negative to him or to my mom (since we lived separately)... it's just he is still so unindependent, and still has 2-3 years to go in the university, doesn't have any income, and doesn't have any experience in do it yourself in any possible tasks (0 skill in cooking, 0 skill in cleaning, 0 skill in gardening, 0 skill in raising pets, 0 skill in installing and uninstalling softwares, 0 skill in updating his antivirus, 100% skill in blogging & contracting viruses)
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: TsuKasa ´・ω・` on December 17, 2009, 02:05:02 PM
FUTSU...
(http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/NamiHitodsn.jpg)
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Lasombra Demon on December 17, 2009, 03:44:51 PM
There is a saying in spanish that relates getting married to having your own place to live. Makes a lot of sense. :P

I'ld change 'normal' to 'hurried' @ the topic name.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: K.O.D on December 17, 2009, 03:46:45 PM
waste of money and time.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Anjel on December 17, 2009, 03:47:50 PM
waste of money and time.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Luis Alejandro on December 17, 2009, 03:52:03 PM
waste of sperm and time.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Sookoll on December 17, 2009, 03:55:25 PM
Love is a lie thought up by jews.
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Post by: Bastard Wolf on December 17, 2009, 04:23:20 PM
The Holocaust was a lie thought up by jews.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: kakkoii superhero on December 17, 2009, 04:24:28 PM
as long as you stay unmarried you & your partner will stay looking attarctive, but once you marry them, then he/she or both of you will become fat and ugly, and you got stuck with it.... and then children and more children :S
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: thoraxglycerin on December 17, 2009, 04:26:01 PM
as long as you stay unmarried you & your partner will stay looking attarctive, but once you marry them, then he/she or both of you will become fat and ugly, and you got stuck with it.... and then children and more children :S

quote of the day :gonkgoi:
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: walt on December 17, 2009, 04:29:07 PM
Hahaha that's all there is to marriage? LOOKING GOOD to have "licensed" sex? I beg to differ.

I don't know who thought monogamy was the way to go, but it's still an interesting concept. Humans are naturally weak, which corners them to be social. Being 2 against the world instead of 1 is a practical concept, not to mention the level of commitment among a larger group of people washes away easily.

One should pick a strong reliable partner to team up with, instead of going around looking for butterflies in your stomach, or a good fuck. I already found a great partner, and I plan to keep her by my side.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: DonuTs on December 17, 2009, 04:50:11 PM
i dnt think marriage is necessary to hold down a committed relationship. my friends parents never married and they have been together for years and had 5 children. it also makes it easier if the couple decide to split, No divorce no legal bullshit
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: kakkoii superhero on December 17, 2009, 04:51:34 PM
..  if you look at a hobby shop or a car showroom or whatever, things there look very attractive, but once you buy and own them for couple of days it will collecting dust in your garage or your shelf. so it is better to never actually own them.
but again maybe it is my own point of view due to my background and experience of how a failing marriage of parrent looked and felt like
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Valodim on December 17, 2009, 04:53:51 PM
i dnt think marriage is necessary to hold down a committed relationship. my friends parents never married and they have been together for years and had 5 children. it also makes it easier if the couple decide to split, No divorce no legal bullshit

...you really don't do very well in these threads. I disagree with you on every single point there.. no time to elaborate though :(
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: DonuTs on December 17, 2009, 04:58:08 PM
so you dont believe that you can have a long committed relationship with someone unless you marry them? ive already seen 2 evidences against that and so far they are not failing. the couples are living like they were married but their not.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Byakko on December 17, 2009, 05:06:06 PM
Not to mention all the marriages that do fail / end in divorce.
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Post by: Mgbenz on December 17, 2009, 05:09:40 PM
There's these things called marriage benefits. They're the reasons why some people marry in the first place.

http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/article-30190.html
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: DonuTs on December 17, 2009, 05:14:56 PM
the beneficial part depends on the country you are living in right?
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Post by: Djedah on December 17, 2009, 06:15:17 PM
Lots and lots of jelly jam.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Zip Mechanic on December 17, 2009, 11:20:43 PM
Iam getting married  june 2010, but the intivation had nt been printed yet, so it may be a little later if grandparents can not get visa to get here. I finally got engaged to my gf of 6 years on valentine day because miss behaven kept saying no to my proposals. I want to spend the rest of my life with her and kids no matter how old and fat she becomes.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Mog on December 18, 2009, 12:55:23 AM
Like your uncle would ever let me marry into YOUR family.  Besides, you offered diamonds and I DETEST diamonds!

:bow:
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Post by: Luis Alejandro on December 18, 2009, 12:58:02 AM
Iam getting married  june 2010, but the intivation had nt been printed yet, so it may be a little later if grandparents can not get visa to get here. I finally got engaged to my gf of 6 years on valentine day because miss behaven kept saying no to my proposals. I want to spend the rest of my life with her and kids no matter how old and fat she becomes.
lol!
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Mog on December 18, 2009, 02:54:22 AM
Wait a minute!  He better not be talking about ME being old and fat!

:bow:
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Messatsu on December 18, 2009, 03:23:16 PM
0 skill in installing and uninstalling softwares, 0 skill in updating his antivirus
Very important preconditions that must be satisfied for a successful marriage in the modern day. :P
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: ExShadow on December 18, 2009, 03:45:30 PM
Wait a minute!  He better not be talking about ME being old and fat!

:bow:
Who?

Correct marriage is the way to go.  :sugoi:
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Mog on December 18, 2009, 04:05:14 PM
Zip, thats who!  He proposed to me at least 50 times already.  I hope he was talking about his gf when he said

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I want to spend the rest of my life with her and kids no matter how old and fat she becomes.

:bow:
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Lasombra Demon on December 18, 2009, 06:27:09 PM
Correct marriage is the way to go.  :sugoi:
Totally.

Marry someone you love and respect, who can surprise you for a long, long time, no matter gender/race/ethnicity/age (as long as it's legal) of that person.

The only thing 'normal' about heterosexual, average marriage is that: it's statistically normal. It doesn't mean it's better, or mentally healthier.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: kakkoii superhero on December 18, 2009, 08:40:34 PM
0 skill in installing and uninstalling softwares, 0 skill in updating his antivirus
Very important preconditions that must be satisfied for a successful marriage in the modern day. :P
oh sure, imagine your wife ask you to setup this cooking game or sim game, or recover the photo of her cats, and you can't do that... how embarrassing.
and later when your kids comparing their supehuman dad @ school:
kid 1: "my dad just bought me this kickass new game, it looks awesome in our PC, my dad is fcking awesome  :sugoi:"
kid 2: "my dad can make mods for games, he is more awesome than yours!  >:("
kid 1: "no mine"
kid 2: "no mine"
yours: "my dad can't even install games in our PC... he sucks.. :-X"
kid1&2: "haHAHAHAHA"
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: </M0GL13> on December 19, 2009, 04:06:59 PM
Hmm well there is nothing wrong with marriage
BUT
Id like to add something
Treason [cheating] should be as illegal as domestic abuse.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Bastard Mami on December 19, 2009, 04:19:45 PM
Very important preconditions that must be satisfied for a successful marriage in the modern day. :P

That's actually true so it's one of the reasons people don't want to marry anymore.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: moolambo on December 19, 2009, 11:47:02 PM
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(0 skill in cooking, 0 skill in cleaning, 0 skill in gardening, 0 skill in raising pets, 0 skill in installing and uninstalling softwares, 0 skill in updating his antivirus, 100% skill in blogging & contracting viruses)
that's much trust, dude.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Byakko on December 20, 2009, 12:00:31 AM
Treason [cheating] should be as illegal as domestic abuse.
... That's stupid. Not everyone reacts to it the same way, while pretty much any human reacts the same way to physical abuse. Something comparable to mental abuse has more chance to be ruled as illegal, but cheating isn't necessarily mental abuse, at least not for everyone.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: kakkoii superhero on December 20, 2009, 12:51:44 AM
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(0 skill in cooking, 0 skill in cleaning, 0 skill in gardening, 0 skill in raising pets, 0 skill in installing and uninstalling softwares, 0 skill in updating his antivirus, 100% skill in blogging & contracting viruses)
that's much trust, dude.
but that's the truth, if out of the 4 dogs they have only 1 survive within 5 years (3 cassualties + 1 MIA) how should I call that
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: moolambo on December 20, 2009, 12:57:00 AM
bad luck, I guess.
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Post by: TsuKasa ´・ω・` on December 20, 2009, 01:43:56 AM
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(0 skill in cooking, 0 skill in cleaning, 0 skill in gardening, 0 skill in raising pets, 0 skill in installing and uninstalling softwares, 0 skill in updating his antivirus, 100% skill in blogging & contracting viruses)
that's much trust, dude.
but that's the truth, if out of the 4 dogs they have only 1 survive within 5 years (3 cassualties + 1 MIA) how should I call that

sounds like a mystery...I'll investigate this series of anomaly.

i've have gathered all the evidences and now i will reveal who is the culprit... the culprit is...
(http://antenna.animeblogger.net/images/icons/series/fullsize/majin_tantei_nougami_neuro.png)
YOU mr.NAVETSEA!! your jealousy towards your brother made you do it !you planned this all along didn't you sabotaging your brother...  indeed this is a chase of sibling rivalry gone bad...

*another crime solved now Watson let's go another crime is waiting to be solved*

but seriously mr navets you should support your brother he is your brother don't rub it on his face that he is no talent good for nothing bum. he is your brother and you should encourage him to do stuff.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: moolambo on December 20, 2009, 01:49:54 AM
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but seriously mr navets you should support your brother he is your brother don't rub it on his face that he is no talent good for nothing bum. he is your brother and you should encourage him to do stuff.
he's your brother navetsea, you shouldn't be your brother's rival, he's your brother, navets, brother, you know, he's your brother, navetsea, your brother. support your brother, he's your brother, you know...






... your brother, navets, your brother.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: TsuKasa ´・ω・` on December 20, 2009, 01:54:43 AM
? i intended to do that... that's my dad talk when he scolds me.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: moolambo on December 20, 2009, 01:58:46 AM
uhm... does it work?
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Post by: TsuKasa ´・ω・` on December 20, 2009, 02:01:29 AM
no...(´・ω・`)
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Lobo on December 20, 2009, 03:32:24 AM
People change after you marry them. Gay or straight it remains the same.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: TsuKasa ´・ω・` on December 20, 2009, 04:44:29 AM
some don't but being able to adjust with the changes is better. the bond between you and your husband will be stronger it's like an rpg game stronger the monster you beat the stronger your character will be.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: kakkoii superhero on December 20, 2009, 05:10:20 AM
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(0 skill in cooking, 0 skill in cleaning, 0 skill in gardening, 0 skill in raising pets, 0 skill in installing and uninstalling softwares, 0 skill in updating his antivirus, 100% skill in blogging & contracting viruses)
that's much trust, dude.
but that's the truth, if out of the 4 dogs they have only 1 survive within 5 years (3 cassualties + 1 MIA) how should I call that

sounds like a mystery...I'll investigate this series of anomaly.

i've have gathered all the evidences and now i will reveal who is the culprit... the culprit is...
http://antenna.animeblogger.net/images/icons/series/fullsize/majin_tantei_nougami_neuro.png (http://antenna.animeblogger.net/images/icons/series/fullsize/majin_tantei_nougami_neuro.png)
YOU mr.NAVETSEA!! your jealousy towards your brother made you do it !you planned this all along didn't you sabotaging your brother...  indeed this is a chase of sibling rivalry gone bad...

*another crime solved now Watson let's go another crime is waiting to be solved*

but seriously mr navets you should support your brother he is your brother don't rub it on his face that he is no talent good for nothing bum. he is your brother and you should encourage him to do stuff.

no, I mean he should wait like 5 years, and let himself to be more prepared for such matter, raising pet is a good training for having a family.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: thoraxglycerin on December 21, 2009, 10:31:09 AM
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(0 skill in cooking, 0 skill in cleaning, 0 skill in gardening, 0 skill in raising pets, 0 skill in installing and uninstalling softwares, 0 skill in updating his antivirus, 100% skill in blogging & contracting viruses)
that's much trust, dude.
but that's the truth, if out of the 4 dogs they have only 1 survive within 5 years (3 cassualties + 1 MIA) how should I call that

sounds like a mystery...I'll investigate this series of anomaly.

i've have gathered all the evidences and now i will reveal who is the culprit... the culprit is...
http://antenna.animeblogger.net/images/icons/series/fullsize/majin_tantei_nougami_neuro.png (http://antenna.animeblogger.net/images/icons/series/fullsize/majin_tantei_nougami_neuro.png)
YOU mr.NAVETSEA!! your jealousy towards your brother made you do it !you planned this all along didn't you sabotaging your brother...  indeed this is a chase of sibling rivalry gone bad...

*another crime solved now Watson let's go another crime is waiting to be solved*

but seriously mr navets you should support your brother he is your brother don't rub it on his face that he is no talent good for nothing bum. he is your brother and you should encourage him to do stuff.

no, I mean he should wait like 5 years, and let himself to be more prepared for such matter, raising pet is a good training for having a family.
learning about responsibility, huh?
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Shamrock on December 21, 2009, 02:12:39 PM
Meh, if it makes him happy then leave your brother alone.

I've almost been married 3 times, each time I realized that I was making a huge fucking mistake. I'm not that type of guy no matter how much I tell myself I want to be that type of guy.
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Mog on December 21, 2009, 08:06:27 PM
You dont want babies, seamróg?

:bow: 
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Lasombra Demon on December 22, 2009, 09:11:34 PM
People can have babies without being married. Teenagers around here need to understand that once and for all. :P
Title: Re: What do you feel about normal marriage?
Post by: Shamrock on December 22, 2009, 10:49:00 PM
You dont want babies, seamróg?

:bow: 

Sure as soon as I grow up.